Aziz nailed my view on marriage
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Thoughts of a Bi-sexual, Bi-polar, PTSD nerd
“For every dark night, there's a brighter day”
If you use these comebacks in a debate, You already Lost
Charge of Irascibility: The man is accused of having anger management issues. Whatever negative emotions he has are assumed to be unjustifiable. “You’re bitter.”, “You need to get over your anger at women.”, or “You are so negative.”
Charge of Cowardice: The man is accused of having an unjustifiable fear of interaction with women. “You need to get over your fear.”, “Step up and take a chance like a man.”, or “You’re afraid of a strong woman.”
Charge of Hypersensitivity: The man is accused of being hysterical or exaggerating the problems of men. “Stop whining.”, “Get over it.”, “Suck it up like a man.”, “You guys don’t have it as nearly as bad as us women.”, “You’re just afraid of losing your male privileges.” “Your fragile male ego…”, or “Wow. You guys need to get a grip.”
Charge of Puerility: The man is accused of being immature and or irresponsible in some manner that reflects badly on his status as an adult male. “Grow up.”, “You are so immature.”, “Do you live with your mother?”, “I’m not interested in boys. I’m interested in real men.”, “Men are shirking their God-given responsibility to marry and bear children.”
Charge of Endangerment: The man is accused of being a menace in some undefined manner. “You guys are scary.” or “You make me feel afraid.”
Charge of Rationalization: The man is accused of explaining away his own failures and or dissatisfaction by blaming women for his problems. “You are just bitter because you can’t get laid.”
Charge of Fanaticism: The man is accused of subscribing to an intolerant, extremist ideology or of being devoted to an ignorant viewpoint. “You’re one of those right-wing wackos.”, “You’re an extremist”, “You sound like the KKK/Hitler Youth/racist.” or “… more anti-feminist zaniness”
Charge of Invirility: The target’s sexual orientation or masculinity is called into question. “Are you gay?”, “I need a real man, not a sissy.” or “You’re such a wimp.”
Charge of Overgeneralization: The target is accused of making generalizations or supporting unwarranted stereotypes about women. “I’m not like that.”, “Stop generalizing.”, “That’s a sexist stereotype.”
Charge of Misogyny: The target is accused of displaying some form of unwarranted malice to a particular woman or to women in general. “You misogynist creep.”, “Why do you hate women?”, “Do you love your mother?”, “You are insensitive to the plight of women.”, “You are mean-spirited.”, “You view women as doormats.”, “You want to roll back the rights of women.”, “You are going to make me cry.”
Charge of Instability: The target is accused of being emotionally or mentally unstable. “You’re unstable.”, “You have issues.”, “You need therapy.”, “Weirdo.”
Charge of Unattractiveness: The target is accused of having no romantic potential as far as women are concerned. “I bet you are fat and ugly.”, “You can’t get laid!”, “Creep!”, “Loser!”, “Have you thought about the problem being you?”
Threat of Withheld Affection: The man is admonished that his viewpoints or behavior will cause women to reject him as a mate. “No woman will marry you with that attitude.” or “You will never get laid!”
The facts did not favor the feminist position so s/he used Feminist Shaming Tactics.
“Thin privilege”
The more I read about “thin privilege” and “fat phobia” the more I think that people are fucking retarded. Talk about first world problems at its finest. Shit, you’re fat because you overeat, you don’t exercise. There’s very few people who are just “naturally” fat.* (and by fat I mean really over weight) Sure it happens, but you can usually control it. To say that you’re “discriminated” against is utter bullshit. Can you marry? Yes. Can you vote? Yes. Can you own property? Yes. That you have to pay a bit extra for clothes (BECAUSE IT TAKES MORE FABRIC), or for a plane seat (because you take up two seats) is not discrimination. That you can’t fit into clothes that you’d like to fit into, is not either. People have REAL problems, and idiots are trying to make an issue out of something that they can change. It’s ridiculous.
Lower health insurance premiums is not a “thin privilege.”
Anything that creates a high risk factor for health problems (family medical history of particular illnesses, smoking, etc) is going to increase the cost of an insurance premium.
It works the same way for car insurance: If you’re a teenage male, your premium is through the roof.
Same way for flood insurance: If your house is in the 20-year floodplain, your insurance is going to cost more than a household that’s only in the 100-year floodplain.
Same way for life insurance: Premium costs increase exponentially based on age.
And no, it’s not higher if you’re overweight. Or even VERY overweight. It only applies if you’re clinically obsese. This isn’t oppression: This is risk mitigation. This isn’t a difficult concept.
(Source: relativelyethical)
Tumblr where a 4 year in Degree in Liberal Arts to add -Phobia and -Ism to any thing bothering them without any knowledge of Psychology nor Sociology, advocating and becoming an activist for anything while whining about the lack of jobs in they’re respective field, besides Tumblr of course.
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silver-adventure asked:
Why does your govt won't do anything? There are news that only shows white suspect and not muslim suspect? Saw articles "Politicians continue to insist that more of these uncivilized refugees are needed" Why do you "NEED" them? Where are your MEN, why won't they protect their women when muslims rape them? You can google it. I want good news. I was planning to travel there, those news stopped me. Why don't you protect your own culture? Any good news? Why won't good muslims fight bad muslims?
Why don’t Good Mexicans fight the Bad Mexicans in Cartels that are terrorizing a entire nation, kidnapping, raping and gangbanging nationals and Mexicans as well as well as decaptitating. Why don’t Good Blacks fight Bad Blacks in L.A, Saint Louis in those Bloods and Crips gangs.
With that point, I’ll answer your questions one by one.
1. Gov’t does things ONLY in their self-interest, is there profit and money to be made? Nope, war makes money hence why there is plenty of it.
2. Uncivilized? Don’t make a assumptions of a entire demographic based on a sample size, that’s a fools job.
3. Need simple, cheap labor.
4. Too busy dying, in civil wars, such as Syria. Every country is different, every group of men is different and each conflict involving Muslims are not the same.
5. I personally don’t care about culture too much. I’ll learn from it but it’s archaic and redundant.
6. Plenty of good news, if you look hard enough but in my own life everything!
7. Look above.
Anonymous asked:
Did you write your 'Why I Shirked' post, or did you get it from somewhere else?
I got it from somewhere else.
#theglenlivet #scotch #whisky #1824 #grownman
What I’m drinking right now
Tumblr and it’s labels lmao
In the beginning, there was EvilFuckingSociopath, and TumblrinAction was without form. And he spoke: Let there be crazy, and he saw that it was good. Lo, and he created a post where he defined the craziness for the initiates. But alas, as TIA has grown, so has the craziness. Thus, I took it upon myself to record and define the words of the “others”, in hopes that others may see our beautiful light.
EDIT 1: BEHOLD, MORE HAS COME TO LIGHT!
BEHOLD: THE TUMBLRINACTION DICTIONARY V 2.1: EVEN MORE CRAZY
Trigger Warning: Something is contained that may trigger (what this means is still unknown, but widely believed to be BS for most of Tumblr) a person reading it. Common trigger warnings (abbreviated tw:) are:
Rape
Assault
Logic
Fat
Thin
Rudeness
WHERE IS MY MIND
Otherkin: A person who believes that they are not truly human, instead they are one of several different organisms such as:
Plantkin: A person identifying as a plant.
Machinekin: A person identifying as a machine, such as buskin.
Animalkin: A person identifying as an animal, such as wolf, tortoise, or dragon.
Galaxykin: A person identifying as a celestial gathering of stars.
Hitlerkin: My personal favorite. Identifying as Hitler.
Other otherkins could be a fictional character, such as a vampire, or even a literary character such as Edward Cullen.
Therian: One who can mentally shapeshift into animals.
Headmates: A term meaning a person has others living inside their head, whom they can speak with.
Multiple systems: A term meaning a person believes their body is occupied by several different consciousness, akin to a computer having several different logins. The consciousness that has control of the body is said to be “fronting”. Multiples can take the form of a different gender, different race, or even an otherkin.
Singlet: The state of only having one person in your head, as opposed to a multiple systems. Some claiming to have multiples can “lose” their multiples and become a singlet.
Transfat: Not to be confused with the actual transfats found in food, this means you identify as a fat person, even though you may be outwardly thin. Symptoms include bemoaning your weight, faking heavy breathing coming up stairs, and refusing to believe that a jar of peanut butter mixed with chocolate chips does not constitute a meal.
Gainer: One trying to gain weight in order to match an inward transfat state.
Vegan: You do not eat or drink anything that comes from an animal.
Fat activist: Believes that big is beautiful, healthy, and everyone should do it.
Transethnic: You believe that you are actually a different race/ethnicity than you were born with. Example: I, although seemingly a white male on the outside, am actually a Samoan princess on the inside.
Transabled: Believing that, while perfectly normal on the outside, on the inside you are handicapped in some way. Example: I can walk. But really, on the inside I need to use a wheelchair to get around.
Transautistic: Saying you identify as an autistic person on the inside. Yes. Really.
SEXUALITY AND GENDER STUDIES
Trans* Anything falling under the category of trans, such as genderfluid, genderqueer, transexual, transvestite, etc.
Pansexual: You can have a sexual attraction to anyone, regardless of their self identified gender, sex, or orientation.
Polysexual: An attraction to multiple genders or sexes. Like bisexual, but apparently more politically correct.
Demisexual: You are only sexually attracted to a person once you have an emotional relationship to them. Friendzone 101.
Skoliosexual: To have an attraction only to those who do not identify as either male or female. This can include the entire trans* umbrella, such as genderfluid, androgynous, intersex, and the like,
Intersex, via MissMego: Having ambiguous genitalia, as in both male and female externally.
Lithromantic: The more terminal form of demisexual, this means you have an attachment to someone, either sexual or emotional, but you do not wish the attachment reciprocated.
Cisgender: Coming from the Latin term cis meaning “same”, it means identifying as the same gender you were born with. As opposed to transgender.
Transgender: Coming from the Latin term trans meaning “opposite*, it means identifying as the opposite gender you were born with, as opposed to cisgender.
Androgynous: Not identifying as either male or female. Genderfluid: You switch back and forth between identifying as a male or female.
Third Sex: You don’t identify as male or female, but as a third sex instead.
Two spirit: You function as both a male and female, including sexual activities.
Asexual: Not having a sexual attraction to anyone. Apparently capable of enjoying sex.
Demiplatonic: You only feel friendship towards those who feel friendship towards you.
Aromantic: You are not romantically attracted to anyone. You can still form relationships, but the cutesy things contained in them have no interest for you.
Autosexual: You are only sexually attracted to yourself.
FAAB: Female assigned at birth due to the biological sex organs present.
MAAB: Male assigned at birth due to the biological sex organs present.
FTMTF: Hell if I know. You are a female who identifies as a male, who in turn identifies as a female?
Vaginophile: You are sexually attracted to a vagina.
Phallophile: You are sexually attracted to a penis.
Podophile: You are sexually attracted to feet (not to be confused with pedophile).
CHECKING YOUR PRIVILEGE AND DISCRIMINATION:
Kyriarchy: An individual is oppressed in some ways and privileged in others.
Thin privilege: The idea that being thin is something given to people, and they shouldn’t try to make others feel bad for not attempting to be thin and healthy.
Appropriation: Liking parts of a certain culture without identifying as a person from that culture. Ex: Non Koreans shouldn’t like Gangnam Style.
Ableism: Discriminating against the disabled. Includes words such as fool, stupid, cripple, lame, idiot, and the like.
PoC: Person of color.
privilege: One of the commons themes of SRS and Tumblr, it originally meant that those in a state of better well being should consider the feelings of others. Unfortunately, it has been bastardized by the groups into saying that if you are a member of a certain category (check your privilege level here then you are awful.
Male privilege: Males can do no good. Violence against males is good. Males have it incredibly easy. Males should die.
Patriarchy: The idea that males run the entire society, thus all others should rise up against them. Related to male privilege.
Misogyny: Literally means “the hatred of women.” Bastardized by SRS and Tumblr to mean anyone saying anything that could possibly be remotely construed as offensive. Maybe.
Legbeard: Opposite of neckbeard, usually a radical feminist.
SAWCSM: An ancronym meaning “Straight Ablebodied White CiSgender Male.” Considered incredibly privileged.
Neckbeard: Closely linking with the adjective form of misogyny, a neckbeard is one who wears a fedora, is incessantly pedantic, and is obviously a shitlord.
Shitlord: One who obviously refuses to check his privilege, is a neckbeard, and is misogynistic.
Policing: Telling someone that what they are doing is wrong, even if that person is being rude/obnoxious/whatever.
Victim Blaming: Saying that “If she hadn’t been walking down a dark alley wearing nothing but her thong, she wouldn’t have been raped.” That’s victim shaming. Linked to rape culture.
Rape culture: Everything in culture, from media to authority figures, is saying that rape is ok.
Mansplaining: Being a man and trying to discuss anything with a female. You male opinion is not required.
Cissplaining: Being cisgendered and discussing anything with a trans* person. Your cis opinion is not required.
Per ArchangelleRonJeremy:
X Shaming
Originally derived from slut-shaming, but can now be extended to any kind of negative attitude to any kind of negative behaviour. e.g. identity shaming, fat shaming, etc. Shaming people is a sign of PrivilegeTM, and is of course a sign that you are Bad.
POPURRI
Pranic You believe you don’t need to eat. Instead, star particles from the universe nourish you.
Pronoun usage: Since some do not identify as either male or female, some have decided to use other pronouns to describe themselves. Those in multiple systems will use “They”, “We”, or “Us”, while other examples are: Vroom, Xe, Ze, Zim, Hir, etc.
If you have any others, feel free to let me know. As for now, I need a drink or three.
Feminism is crap, but I believe in it as you know it.
Update From The Author
I noticed that my post on negging “Negging Women – 10 Awesome Negs That Work” has drawn a lot of negative comments from women.
I understand the blowback. I understand where some of you girls are coming from. You see negging as a form of bullying or insults.
And most women are pretty sensitive to the idea of it, based on being bullied in real life.
Most women, particularly in high school, were teased, gossiped about, or bullied in some fashion – and usually from other women. Pretty girls especially face negativity from their female friends, as pretty girls tend to hang in “pretty social circles” where there’s a lot of superficial cattiness, backstabbing, and competition.
Or even if you’ve never been bullied or teased yourself, you’ve seen the devastating effect it had on your classmates. So naturally, you feel sympathy.
But anger at ‘negging’ is misplaced.
First, we are talking about a night club environment. There’s lots of REJECTION involved, inherent to the environment.
And most of the rejection is aimed at the GUYS.
Haven’t either you or one of your friends ever ignore a guy? Like, not even acknowledge his presence when he tried to talk to you.
It’s often pretty CRUSHING to the guy’s self-esteem that he isn’t given 10 seconds to acknowledge he’s another human being to talk to and say “hello”. Ignoring a guy completely is much crueler than any neg a guy would dish. (Like, “Hey girl! You have some lint in your hair… look at that.”)
Then again, it’s a night club. If a guy’s ego is so fragile, he shouldn’t go.
So please girls, if a guy told you that you had lint in your hair and that would “cut you down” or would “crush you”, and your ego is THAT fragile, then don’t go to night clubs!! After all, the guys have to deal with MUCH WORSE from you girls!
In addition, Negs are for those glamour girls that have been spoiled all their lives by Daddy and have little sense of reality (like Kim Kardashian or Paris Hilton for example). These are the types of girls that enjoy shooting “nice guys” down. It’s THAT kind of girl that negs are designed to attract.
So if you’re a normal-looking girl with a normal attitude, you probably will NEVER BE NEGGED in your life. So for crying-out-loud, don’t worry about it.
Further consider that 99.9% of guys are SO damn nervous in clubs and bars that they can’t even approach a girl without wetting their briefs… let alone finding the balls to neg a pretty girl.
So don’t worry, it’s statistically unlikely to ever happen to you, even if you DO look like a runway model. Most guys will never approach you, or they’ll just try to kiss your ass to get into your pants. And that’s SO much better than those bad boys, right?
But since those guys are NOT a challenge in the slightest, they’re not attractive to you. That’s why you blow them off.
That’s what a neg does – creates a challenge to the female. That’s what attractive guys do. And ANY guy you’ve ever fallen for, on some level, you had to chase HIM. Every single guy you ever had a crush on made YOU chase HIM.
I know it’s simple to latch onto a cause, leave a comment, and feel like you’re serving justice in some small way by taking a stand against the 1 in 10,000 guys that have the balls to neg a girl like, “Hey girl! It’s funny how your nose wiggles when you talk!” But really, it’s an empty cause!
P.S. If you still disagree with this assessment, please leave a comment, I welcome all opinions!
girls rejected me so me being an asshole is totally justified DUH
aka girls r mean cry
just fucking WOW
if you think ‘negging’ is an acceptable way to attract women you need to grow the fuck up you god damn child
(via mahoushoujomami)Honestly he made a point. I neg idiotic dimwits subtly usually with sarcasm. When guys don’t understand subtle then he gets insulting otherwise. Instead of whining, why not refute him? The dynamics change and if you are honest, smart, cute, great girl you won’t get negged. If a girl acts like a princess entitled to the world, I will bet $100 the guy who negs her will go home with her. Instead of whining, work on your personailty flaws such as insecurity to avoid this.
(Source: pekoryuu)
The most painful goodbyes are not the ones that are never said, or never explained.
Epic
If you know yourself, then you’ll not be harmed by what is said about you.
(Source: larmoyante, via flamepwincess)
